HOW CAN A MOTHER CONTRIBUTE TO HER DAUGHTER'S HAPPINESS?

HOW CAN A MOTHER CONTRIBUTE TO HER DAUGHTER'S HAPPINESS?

A woman's happiness is complete only with her family. The happiness of a woman without a family is lacking. Her heart is, in fact, deeply broken. And the pillar of the family is the husband. A home without a husband is like a sky without the sun, a night without the moon. The husband is the head of the family, its leader. It is not permissible to offend him, insult him, overrule his word, bow his head, or hurt his heart.

Not for nothing do the people say, "It is the wife who makes a husband a man, and it is the wife who puts him in the black earth." This proverb ascribes a very great power to the wife.

The mother is the one who does the greatest work for her daughter's happiness:

1. She raises her to be chaste. 2. She brings her up to be deft and capable in household work. 3. She instills in her to be sweet-spoken and understanding, patient and obedient toward her husband. 4. She teaches her to be wise - to tell benefit from harm and to stand on the side of benefit. And benefit is preserving faith and good manners.

These things happen until the daughter marries. But the mother's task does not end there; she goes on building and strengthening the castle of her daughter's happiness:

1. She teaches her daughter not to speak ill of her husband and not to betray her husband's secrets. 2. She teaches her not to take offense at her mother-in-law and not to look her father-in-law straight in the eye.

The main thing -

from time to time, without letting her daughter know, she sincerely asks her son-in-law himself: "What shortcomings does my daughter have? How is she conducting herself? Is her temper not going bad? Is she not being lazy? You tell me, and I will advise her, insha Allah!"

For a son-in-law, his mother-in-law is like a mother.

And a mother is the closest friend. Certain secrets can be told to a mother. In particular, if you tell some of your concerns to your mother-in-law, who is courageous and wise and ready to help bring up your wife, and she advises her daughter, the daughter will certainly heed her mother's word.

In this way the fortress of the family stands firm. Well-being and blessing, happiness and joy will not leave the people of this fortress, if God wills.

You see how important a mother (a woman) is for the family, and no one can take her place!